
Men Aren't from Mars; Women Aren't from Venus
by
Dr. A
on Sat 24 Sep 2005 09:39 AM CDT
Washington — The popular
media has portrayed men and women
as psychologically different as
two planets – Mars and Venus
- but these differences are vastly
overestimated and the two sexes
are more similar in personality,
communication, cognitive ability
and leadership than realized, according
to a review of 46 meta-analyses
conducted over the last 20 years.
According to the meta-analysis of studies on gender differences
reported on in the current issue of the American Psychologist, males
and females from childhood to adulthood are more alike than different
on most but not all psychological variables, said psychologist Janet S.
Hyde, Ph.D., of the University of Wisconsin in Madison. Psychological
differences based on gender were examined in studies that looked at a
number of psychological traits and abilities to determine how much
gender influenced an outcome. The traits and variables examined were
cognitive abilities, verbal and nonverbal communication, social or
psychological traits like aggression or leadership, psychological
well-being like self-esteem, motor behaviors like throwing distance and
moral reasoning.
Gender differences accounted
for either zero or a very small
effect for most of the psychological
variables examined, according
to Hyde. Only motor behaviors
(throwing distance), some aspects
of sexuality and heightened physical
aggression showed marked gender
differences.
Furthermore, gender differences
seem to depend on the context
they were measured in, said Hyde.
In studies where gender norms
are removed, researchers demonstrated
how important gender roles and
social context were in determining
a person’s actions. In
one study where participants
in the experimental group were
told that they were not identified
as male or female nor wore any
identification, neither sex conformed
to a stereotyped image when given
the opportunity to act aggressively.
They did the opposite to what
was expected.
Over-inflated claims of gender
difference seen in the mass media
affect men and women in work,
parenting and relationships,
said Hyde. Studies of gender
and evaluation of leaders in
the workplace show that women
who go against the caring, nurturing
stereotype may pay for it dearly
when being hired or evaluated.
This also happens with the portrayals
of relationships in the media.
Best-selling books and popular
magazine articles assert that
women and men can’t get
along because they communicate
too differently, said Dr. Hyde.
Maybe the problem is that they
give up prematurely because they
believe they can’t change
what they mistakenly believe
is an innate trait, she added.
Children also suffer the consequences
of these exaggerated claims of
gender difference. There is a
wide spread belief that boys
are better in math than girls,
said Dr Hyde. But according to
this meta-analysis, boys and
girls perform equally in math
until high school where boys
do gain a small advantage. Unfortunately,
elementary aged mathematically-talented
girls may be overlooked by parents
who have lower expectations for
a daughter’s success in
math versus a son’s likelihood
to succeed in math. Research
has shown that parents’ expectations
for their children’s math
success relate strongly to a
child’s self-confidence
and his or her performance.
The misrepresentation of how
different the sexes are, which
is not supported by the scientific
evidence, harms men and women
of all ages in many different
areas of life, said Dr. Hyde. “The
claims can hurt women’s
opportunities in the workplace,
dissuade couples from trying
to resolve conflict and communication
problems and cause unnecessary
obstacles that hurt children
and adolescents’ self-esteem.”
Article: “The
Gender Similarities Hypothesis,” Janet
Shibley Hyde, Ph.D., University
of Wisconsin – Madison; American
Psychologist, Vol. 60, No.
6.
Men and Women Found More Similar than Portrayed in Popular Media, According to Research on Gender Differences
APA Press Release
18 Sept 2005